Many of us are just too eager to convince others. What we think is correct! And we want all others to acknowledge it. Always! All the frustration has its origin in the weakness of people not being able to accept the fact that people disagree. Anger comes out of the desperation to somehow rub one’s mind on others’. In the first place, why should anyone be convinced about what you think is correct? More than that, why should you be desperate to prove it correct? If what you say is not correct, then the other person obviously need not agree to it. And if it is, it will remain the same whether the other person accepts it or not. Just that he is not ready enough at this point of time and will learn it one day in his own way. Isn’t anger just a hard shell over weakness?
I always feel: "FOR MY THOUGHTS ARE NOT YOUR THOUGHTS, NEITHER ARE YOUR WAYS"
The other side is many of them try to convince us without understanding the situations...
They think that they are always correct!
Though we don't like to acknowledge it,we do...at times...only for one reason...
We do love them...
At times we lose our independency in thoughts or feelings...
But still we are happy because we have some one for us...in the downline...to understand us...
1 comment:
Hiii,
"Convincing the others" is a deep seated natural tendency of almost all human beings.But few of us, just control this to not to rub our mind on others and majority of us could not control.The below mentioned statement by you,somehow attracted my attention.
"Though we don't like to acknowledge it,we do...at times...only for one reason...We do love them... At times we lose our independency in thoughts or feelings..."
If the LOVE you mentioned here exists between both parties,then definitely, one day or the other,naturally both will be convinced to the correct point.So,I believe, no need to lose one's INDEPENDENCE in thoughts or feelings for his/her loving beings, if there is really no necessity for the same.
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